THE SECRET OF MY SUCCESS

 THE SECRET OF MY SUCCESS

     Teacher, you are so lucky, you really enjoy a lot? How you get time? How you manage time for all the tuition batches?  How you get time for tuition, abacus and other activities? How you manage time to do your household work along with your profession? How you manage to dedicate time to shoot, edit and upload videos for your YouTube channel? And last but not least, Inspite of so busy schedule how you get time for outings with family on weekends?

 These are the questions which I come across most frequently.

Today I would like to reveal all the secrets. So here I go.

     We all are blessed with 24 hours in a day, which comes to 1440 minutes or 86400 seconds. No one is gifted with extra hours or so. So first of all it all depends how we make the best use of these 24 hours. Let me know, when we say, we don’t get time, what you exactly mean to say? Time is not a thing to get it from somewhere. We all already have it. Now it all depends how we make best use of it.

     We find number of books based on ‘Time Management’. How to plan your day? How to make a perfect timetable? How to plan your goals? Time table for a year, month, week, and finally a day. Make your priority lists…..

We find all these things very well explained in such books.

But to be very frank I hardly follow any such things.

Surprised??????

 If this is not what I follow, then what’s the secret of my success and time management?

 MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS

This instruction I never give to others, but I myself follow this strictly.

Yes.

I never waste time in peeping in others’ lives. 

I never compete myself with others.

Never waste time in nonsense things like gossips, jealousy, unhealthy competition or so.

I believe in divine power. We all are gifted with special gifts. We all are blessed with best destiny. We divert ourselves from the best by getting involved in negative aspects like comparison, jealousy, etc.

Once we learn to mind our own business, our mind is always fresh, active and focused on our path without any stupid distractions.

 LIVE YOUR DREAMS

The next aspect is I work in the field of my choice. My profession is not just the mean of earning my daily bread. It’s my passion, my love. So spending extra hours in my work area is never a burden for me.

How to check this?

Just do this small test…..

At your office whether it’s a job or your own business, if you are compelled to spend 2-3 hours extra apart from your daily routine hours, what your heart says at such times……? Your answer will reveal you many facts.

 BELIEVE IN FLOW

Still water soon becomes stagnant. Flowing stream is always live and fresh. Same is applicable to our life, our work fields. Make some changes. Without changing you basic nature of you profession, we can still plan for time to time changes.

Let me explain my experience.

I started tuitions with few students only for SSLC.

Later shifted to primary…

Planned for expansion.

Started abacus, graphotherapy, classes too.

And now enjoying making videos for my YouTube channel too.

It’s not possible without a good support system, I made a team and I am fortunate to get the best supporting team.

So always think of progress in life. Move ahead. Your positive thoughts will definitely open the new doors for you.

 ACCEPT THE CHALLENGES

Nothing is easy though it seems. Yes, most of them, by looking at my posts, think that I am very lucky, fortunate one to have such a happy and progressive life. My stars are good and so on. But I would like to mention here, we all not directly blessed with such life. But, yes, we all are blessed with full potential to achieve all that we wish. It all depends on how we make best use of our hidden potentials.

Life is never too easy. We come across many unexpected challenges.

This year CORONA was the biggest problem which hit my professional life.

Entire routine was disturbed. Few plans shattered to pieces. So far all the classes were going offline. And suddenly there was complete lockdown.

This was the biggest challenge. Online classes, was the best option which helped me out. And the most amazing thing is my youtube channel “Vrushuraj Classes”.

 CHALLENGES HELP US TO GROW

Challenges are like catapult, which holds you back for a moment. And if you manage to hold that pain for a while you will find yourself far ahead than your expectations. So never curse challenges. They always come with the new amazing opportunities to grow.

 NEVER BIND YOURSELF IN RESTRICTIONS

Many times we find that we unnecessarily bind ourselves with too many non-essential restrictions. Most of the ladies have common complaint, I want to do so many things in life but domestic responsibilities consumes our time and so we can’t manage time for anything else.

Ok. Here is the solution.

Make a list of all household works. (Cooking, sweeping, folding clothes, cutting vegetables, making tea, coffee, marketing, etc.)

Share the responsibilities. Most of you never even try this option. And this can be done without disturbing the peace of your sweet home. It’s your family, the members whom you love, the members who loves you. Share your dreams, your plans with them. If you go in the right way, I assure you that you will get the right support. We can’t escape our basic responsibilities. But if few things are shared to life routine becomes easy and enjoyable.

Secondly when you plan your work, try your best you go accordingly. But suppose if you fail at 1-2 things, don’t panic.

Let me tell you one simple example. If you plan to make a special dinner on a particular day, but due to some unexpected extra work it’s not possible, don’t panic, go for some simple dish rather than disturbing your peace.

(It happens with me many times and in many cases)

 KNOW YOUR WEAKNESSES AND STRENGTHS

Know your weakness, accept it. Is the change possible and secondly is the change really essential. If the answer is NO just move ahead.

Know your strength and make best use of it.

Most of you waste your precious time thinking over your weakness and in doing so you fail to recognize the best hidden within you.

NEVER EXPECT FAVOR AND SYMPATHY

The worst part which most of them do is expect favors and sympathy. And the second mistake done here is they consider this as HELP.

There’s difference between favor, sympathy and help. Help is required sometimes and there’s no harm to take help of someone whenever and wherever required. But expecting favors and sympathy makes you weak and keeps you away from your own hidden potentials.

BE THANKFUL TO ALL WHAT YOU HAVE

Always be thankful to all what you already have. Never make a list of complaints of what you don’t have. This single change will make miraculous change in your life.

ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE

This world is full of variety. Different people, different nature. Never try to judge anyone. Just accept it. If possible enjoy this diversity and move ahead.

 So, hope the secret of my success is quite clear to you.

What is the ultimate expectation from life?

Start the day with a smile and end with satisfaction.

Yes, in the morning when we wake, there should be a smile on your face for the beginning of one more wonderful day and at the day end there should be a feeling of satisfaction while going to bed.

A wonderful day and a peaceful sleep, if you gain this, you are on the right track.

 

May god bless you all with happy, healthy and peaceful life.

 

By Vrushali Sudarshan Narasgouda.

(Mail : vrushalivs@gmail.com)