THE SECRET OF MY SUCCESS
Today
I would like to reveal all the secrets. So here I go.
We
find all these things very well explained in such books.
But
to be very frank I hardly follow any such things.
Surprised??????
This
instruction I never give to others, but I myself follow this strictly.
Yes.
I
never waste time in peeping in others’ lives.
I
never compete myself with others.
Never
waste time in nonsense things like gossips, jealousy, unhealthy competition or
so.
I
believe in divine power. We all are gifted with special gifts. We all are
blessed with best destiny. We divert ourselves from the best by getting
involved in negative aspects like comparison, jealousy, etc.
Once
we learn to mind our own business, our mind is always fresh, active and focused
on our path without any stupid distractions.
The
next aspect is I work in the field of my choice. My profession is not just the
mean of earning my daily bread. It’s my passion, my love. So spending extra
hours in my work area is never a burden for me.
How
to check this?
Just
do this small test…..
At
your office whether it’s a job or your own business, if you are compelled to
spend 2-3 hours extra apart from your daily routine hours, what your heart says
at such times……? Your answer will reveal you many facts.
Still
water soon becomes stagnant. Flowing stream is always live and fresh. Same is
applicable to our life, our work fields. Make some changes. Without changing
you basic nature of you profession, we can still plan for time to time changes.
Let
me explain my experience.
I
started tuitions with few students only for SSLC.
Later
shifted to primary…
Planned
for expansion.
Started
abacus, graphotherapy, classes too.
And
now enjoying making videos for my YouTube channel too.
It’s
not possible without a good support system, I made a team and I am fortunate to
get the best supporting team.
So
always think of progress in life. Move ahead. Your positive thoughts will
definitely open the new doors for you.
Nothing
is easy though it seems. Yes, most of them, by looking at my posts, think that I
am very lucky, fortunate one to have such a happy and progressive life. My
stars are good and so on. But I would like to mention here, we all not directly
blessed with such life. But, yes, we all are blessed with full potential to
achieve all that we wish. It all depends on how we make best use of our hidden
potentials.
Life
is never too easy. We come across many unexpected challenges.
This
year CORONA was the biggest problem which hit my professional life.
Entire
routine was disturbed. Few plans shattered to pieces. So far all the classes
were going offline. And suddenly there was complete lockdown.
This
was the biggest challenge. Online classes, was the best option which helped me
out. And the most amazing thing is my youtube channel “Vrushuraj Classes”.
Challenges
are like catapult, which holds you back for a moment. And if you manage to hold
that pain for a while you will find yourself far ahead than your expectations.
So never curse challenges. They always come with the new amazing opportunities
to grow.
Many
times we find that we unnecessarily bind ourselves with too many non-essential
restrictions. Most of the ladies have common complaint, I want to do so many
things in life but domestic responsibilities consumes our time and so we can’t
manage time for anything else.
Ok.
Here is the solution.
Make
a list of all household works. (Cooking, sweeping, folding clothes, cutting
vegetables, making tea, coffee, marketing, etc.)
Share
the responsibilities. Most of you never even try this option. And this can be
done without disturbing the peace of your sweet home. It’s your family, the
members whom you love, the members who loves you. Share your dreams, your plans
with them. If you go in the right way, I assure you that you will get the right
support. We can’t escape our basic responsibilities. But if few things are
shared to life routine becomes easy and enjoyable.
Secondly
when you plan your work, try your best you go accordingly. But suppose if you
fail at 1-2 things, don’t panic.
Let
me tell you one simple example. If you plan to make a special dinner on a
particular day, but due to some unexpected extra work it’s not possible, don’t
panic, go for some simple dish rather than disturbing your peace.
(It
happens with me many times and in many cases)
Know
your weakness, accept it. Is the change possible and secondly is the change really
essential. If the answer is NO just move ahead.
Know
your strength and make best use of it.
Most
of you waste your precious time thinking over your weakness and in doing so you
fail to recognize the best hidden within you.
NEVER EXPECT FAVOR AND SYMPATHY
The
worst part which most of them do is expect favors and sympathy. And the second
mistake done here is they consider this as HELP.
There’s
difference between favor, sympathy and help. Help is required sometimes and
there’s no harm to take help of someone whenever and wherever required. But expecting
favors and sympathy makes you weak and keeps you away from your own hidden
potentials.
BE THANKFUL TO ALL WHAT YOU HAVE
Always
be thankful to all what you already have. Never make a list of complaints of
what you don’t have. This single change will make miraculous change in your
life.
ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE
This
world is full of variety. Different people, different nature. Never try to
judge anyone. Just accept it. If possible enjoy this diversity and move ahead.
What
is the ultimate expectation from life?
Start
the day with a smile and end with satisfaction.
Yes,
in the morning when we wake, there should be a smile on your face for the beginning
of one more wonderful day and at the day end there should be a feeling of satisfaction
while going to bed.
A wonderful
day and a peaceful sleep, if you gain this, you are on the right track.
May
god bless you all with happy, healthy and peaceful life.
By Vrushali
Sudarshan Narasgouda.
(Mail
: vrushalivs@gmail.com)
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